One-Month Clutter Challenge: Day One

As readers of this blog will know, I sell on eBay and Kijiji as well as other platforms items I already own, in order to clear the clutter and pay the mortgage, at the same time. Both are good for my wife and I’s sanity and peace of mind. We find the amount of stuff that we have accumulated throughout the years to weigh tremendously, not only physically cluttering our home but also mentally.

For the month of April, we are determined to kick it up a notch not only by selling unwanted goods, but also by pledging not to purchase anything that is not food or gas for the car, and that, for the entire month. This means we can do groceries, even in bulk at Costco, but we’re not buying anything we cannot eat. If I run out of body wash, I will finally have to use the small bars of soap I’ve pilfered from hotel rooms 10 years ago!

The goal here is start making a dent on the volume of our physical belongings, which can be overwhelming, and that’s not even counting the warehouse. With nothing coming in for a month and stuff going out, hopefully at an accelerated pace, we should be able to see a visible difference!

This will be tougher than it looks. We are conditioned and encouraged to purchase AT EVERY TURN.

We picked the month of April because no one in the immediate family has a birthday, so no gifts to buy and no parties to attend, and Christmas expenses from last year are all taken care of.

Every few days I’ll be posting an update here about how we are doing, how much money we spend and on what. There could be exceptions, of course. For example, we will buy medication if so required, as well as hygiene products if such are needed, but we shop at Costco, so we should be pretty set already.

Can you take the One-Month Clutter Challenge as well? Let me know in the comments below what you think of my project, and you’d be game to try. I’ll be sharing some exact numbers in the days ahead.

The First Step to Effective Decluttering

As I’ve talked about in a previous post, I’m a recovering hoarder. Okay, perhaps recovering is too strong a word. Let’s say that I’ve finally realized what’s wrong with me, and I’m trying to work through it. Being a hoarder is not easy, and breaking the habit of hoarding is the hardest thing to do, even more difficult than getting rid of what you already have.

To me, the first step to effective decluttering is to staunch the inbound flow of clutter, so that you can start thinking clearly about the stuff you already own and that is creating all that pressure and stress..

First things first: stop accumulating stuff!

Try the one One Month Challenge! Simply don’t buy anything except food for a month. It’s a lot harder than it looks, because there will be times when you think that you absolutely need something, and you MUST buy it! Unless it relates to your health or employability, simply put it off. Tell yourself you’ll buy it next month, when the challenge is over. Think of it as a firearms waiting period, except for stuff; chances are, you’ll realize you didn’t need it in the first place or just forget about it. In any case, it stays in the store and not in your home.

Even reducing the inward flow of things in your living space, rather than stopping it completely, can make a huge difference on your health and well-being. Being conscious of what you’re doing, of every single item that comes in your living space, will provoke thoughts. You’ll start visualizing new items after they’ve been in your house for years, untouched, useless and gathering dust. You’ll think twice and consider each purchase more carefully.

This first step to effective decluttering is simply to stop accumulating; once you’ve mastered this, you can move on to eliminating the overflow that’s already around!

Are you a hoarder, or have hoarding tendencies? What are the techniques you use to keep yourself in check? Share in the comments below!

How to Sell Music CDs on eBay

Selling music Compact Discs (CDs) on eBay can be challenging, but when done properly, can be a really good source of revenue over the long term. I’ve had some success selling CDs on eBay, so I’ll share with you my experiences so hopefully you can replicate my success. There are no magic bullets here, and it’s a lot of hard work, but if that’s what you need to do to help declutter your house and make some money, then go for it!

Sell those CDs on eBay and make a few bucks!

Before we get into the details of what to do to sell successfully, here are a few points to consider before you get started selling used or new music CDs on eBay.

  • There is lots of competition! Unless you have some really unique and rare stuff, you can expect to be selling your music CDs for not much money – only a few dollars – so this is why it it’s important to get them for as cheap as possible!
  • The CD is a format that is in major decline. It hasn’t hit rock-bottom yet, mostly because so many people are invested with the format, however it hasn’t shown the same kind of resurgence that vinyls and cassettes, to a lesser extent. The pool of people buying CDs is dwindling every day, but thankfully it is still enormous and has a ways to go.
  • Shipping costs are a major problem when selling CDs online. For example, within Canada they can be shipped as a letter for about $5, but shipping to the US is very expensive, almost $9 (Canadian). This is why you are sometimes better off selling CDs as lots rather than individually so the shipping costs can be amortized.

These are the major challenges you will face when trying to get rid of your CDs online; that being said, you should not let that discourage you, there’s still a lot of money to be made!

  • One of the coolest things about CDs is that these days you can buy them for extremely cheap. Never pay more than $1 each, and in many cases you can have them for cheaper than that. You can even find them on the side of the road when people are clearing out their garages, if that’s your thing.
  • Because the acquisition cost is so low, the potential for profit is enormous, but it does require some investment on your time, mainly time and a little money every month, for the eBay listing fees.
  • Don’t get discouraged if your merchandise doesn’t sell at the beginning! The more inventory and listings you add, the greater your chances are at monster profit! Someone might come along that was unwilling to buy one CD from you (let’s say because of shipping) but he’ll buy 20 and spread the shipping costs – but only if you have what he or she wants!

Here is the process I follow when I have a batch of CDs to sell (and boy, do I!):

  • Take good pictures; a minimum of three pictures per CD. I take the pictures with my Google Pixel 2 XL mobile device; they are uploaded to Google Photos automatically, and are easily available when the time comes to create the listings. Take pictures in batches, not one CD at a time, otherwise it’s not worth your time!
  • Do a little bit of research; I check on eBay how much the CD I have has sold for in the past. Don’t be greedy and push for higher, or it might not sell. Price your stuff cheaper than the average, and determine a bottom price under which you will not sell. For example, my bottom price is $9.99, but I’ll accept offers a low as $5.
  • Be honest. If there are cracks in the jewel case, say so, unless you are planning on switching it out before shipping, and even then, make sure you mention it in your listing. Same goes for any other physical defect.
  • Working with two screens and a bunch of windows open, listing a music CD on eBay can take me as little as 5-6 minutes, including taking the picture, assuming I don’t take the pictures one CD at a time. Even if the CD takes a few months to sell, it’s still a good hourly rate.
  • Make sure you use the proper titles and keywords; this is where your research comes in. Don’t be shy about copying, word for word, the title of something that sold well, assuming you have the exact same product. Don’t copy the description or the photos, that’s just lame, but the title is fair game!

When a CD sells, I put it in an envelope if I’m shipping to Canada, or the lightest, smallest box I can find if shipping anywhere else, bring it to the post office and off it goes! It’s okay to be flexible on price, but it’s never okay to lose money on shipping. If you do, you make sure you make it up somewhere else, such as in the selling price. You are not responsible for shipping rates, even though they may hurt your business.

This, in a nutshell, is what I do to sell music CDs on eBay. There more you list, the more you sell, the more you will learn about what works for you and what doesn’t. Some types of music are more popular, some CDs always sell and some never do. Even the ones that don’t sell are part of the mix, as they contribute to bringing people to your listings. Eventually, you may want to list all the ones that don’t sell in a single batch for $1 each, or whatever, and clear them out of your house, making room for something else. I’m a little bit of a work-in-progress hoarder, so making room in the house is important for my family and me.

Please share your comments and success stories in the comments below!

Being a Hoarder is in my Blood, and Driving my Wife Crazy

For the longest time I thought that a hoarder was something you saw on a television documentary, or on the news. An elderly person died and in their house was every single newspaper they’d ever owned, since the 1930s. Perhaps a house was full of garbage, and it made the news. Nothing about the poor souls that lived there, just mountains of junk, to the ceiling.

When my mother passed away, my sister and I, and my father to a certain extent, had to come to the realization that our mother had been a hoarder. Now, not a sad hoarder like those on television… just a regular hoarder. She kept everything that could possibly have had any sentimental value.

She kept her clothes from when she was a child, back in the forties. She kept all her books, including her childhood books. She kept EVERYTHING.

Since she was so organized, we never noticed. We didn’t grow up in a house full of newspapers or garbage, it was pretty normal, no visible accumulation anywhere. It’s only when she was no longer there to manage it all that it became apparent. I don’t think she had a very severe case, but it was definitely persistent throughout her life.

She’s been gone for over a decade, and my sister and I still deal with the aftershocks, mainly a warehouse full of stuff that we have no need for. I am gamely listing things on eBay and Kijiji, trying to get rid of stuff, but it’s a long, difficult process, fraught with emotions at every single item I handle.

I’m afraid that I suffer from the same condition, although I am certainly more willing to admit it than my mom ever did, certainly because of the influence of my wife, who sees all this from an outside perspective. It just seems that no matter how much I sell or dispose of, there is more that comes in; it’s a constant, uphill battle.

I’m better than I was; I don’t collect empty prescription pill bottles anymore (although I find them strangely useful), and I’ve come to see my crazy mess with somewhat fresh eyes.

The Lively Dollar

It is said that feeling distress about possessions, of feeling overwhelmed or embarrassed, is a symptom of hoarding, and if that is the case, then I’m definitely a hoarder. Having anyone but family or very close friends over at home is difficult and requires an inordinate amount of stress and organization to pull off.

With the other classic symptoms of hoarding, I seem to do better; I am able to get rid of possessions, but only so far through selling; throwing out items is still very difficult, but I guess that at some point the junk that’s left will be just that, junk, and nobody wants that.

What helps me is realizing the pain, stress and feeling of being overwhelmed that my compulsion imposes on my family, particularly on my wife. She doesn’t have to deal with that, and it is something that I am able to fix. It’s not easy.

I also have young children; I don’t want, hopefully far into the future, to pass away and leave them a house full of junk that they have to deal with, just like I have to deal with the warehouse now. I am glad to have so many cherished family items, but it would have been nice for my parents to do some pruning before giving us the keys to the warehouse.

As I get to writing the blog more and more, my efforts in getting rid of all that stuff will become more apparent; this website is about money, making it, saving it and putting it to work, and selling all those items will be an additional source or revenue that I will mine for a long time.

4 Easy Ways to Save Like Crazy at Costco

At The Lively Dollar, we LOVE Costco! There’s everything we need, and the value is always incredible. Here are a few tips to help you save a little bit more. These are techniques that we use every week, and there is nothing sneaky about them, Costco actually WANTS you to take advantage of these. You’ll be happy, because you save more, and so will Costco, because you’ll be in the store more often!

Use your Executive Coupons

One of the easiest ways to save at Costco without racking your brains is to use your Executive coupons! Unlike the coupons you receive at the door from the friendly people in red vests that greet you, Executive coupons are received at home, and must be presented to the cashier in order to receive the savings. They are only for Executive Members! If you do not have the Executive level membership, just upgrade – it costs more, but you can save tons just on the coupons, way more that the actual cost of the membership.

Some coupon booklets are sponsored by Procter & Gamble. These guys make everything we use, so it’s real easy to save – think toothpaste, deodorant, laundry detergent, et cetera. Others are sponsored by Kirkland Signature (Costco’s house brand) so you can get everything from frozen beef patties to coffee and more.

Buy Costco Gas

Buying gas at Costco is an easy to pay for your membership, and more, even without setting foot in the warehouse! Let’s say you buy 50 liters of gas a week, at an average savings of 5 cents a liter; you would save $130 a year. Doesn’t look like much, but you’ve just paid for your Executive membership at Costco! If you have the regular Gold Star membership, you’ve put $70 in your pocket! Try to time your gas fill-ups with your Costco runs so that you don’t waste time or fuel.

Buy Weekly Specials in Bulk

Except under very special circumstances, there are no buying limits at Costco. There is no “Limit per Customer’. Feel free to buy the whole pallet if you want! That’s why you should always stock up on regular specials – the ones that they hand at the door when you walk in. If you plan and purchase judiciously, you can make it so that items on special are the only ones you buy! You could cut 10% to 25% off of your bill every time, and that’s nothing to sneeze at!

Shop for Discounted and Clearance Items

Did you ever notice items that are priced ending in .97? Those are clearance items. Assuming that it’s something you would have bought anyways, you can safely stock up on these. Costco is clearing them out to make room for something else, and they are priced to move. We’ve seen savings of up to 90% on those, so know your stock, and your prices, and you can really save big!

In Conclusion

These are four ways to save on each and every one of your Costco runs. Do you have a favorite way to save at Costco? Tell us in the comments below!